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Deborah Ellen Stoodley (Nee McDonald) April 27, 1958 - January 22, 2021

Registered Nurse – Winchester District Memorial Hospital

Peacefully surrounded by her loving family at the Winchester District Memorial Hospital on Friday January 22, 2021. Debbie Stoodley age 62 of Winchester. Beloved wife of John. Loving Mom of Tim (Ashley), Melissa (Scott) Strban and Jonathan (Amber). Cherished Grandma of Elizabeth, Ellie, Emerson; Paisley, Weston, Adelyn; Slater, Lilah and Julie. Dearly loved sister of Carole (Freeman) Acres, John (Helen), Kenny, Glenn (Brenda), Larry (Nancy) and sister-in-law of Lois (Dale) Presley, Doris (Garry) Baker, and Darlene (Jeff) Broad. Fondly remembered by many nieces and nephews. A private family funeral service will be held with a Celebration of Life to follow at a later date. Donations in Memory of Debbie may be made to the Winchester District Memorial Hospital. Arrangements entrusted to the Byers Funeral Home, South Mountain (613-989-3836).

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A private family funeral service will be held with a Celebration of Life to follow at a later date. Donations in Memory of Debbie may be made to the Winchester District Memorial Hospital. Arrangements entrusted to the Byers Funeral Home, South Mountain (613-989-3836).

Online condolences may be made at www.byersfuneralhomeinc.ca

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    Butch and Susan Whitteker says

    Our most sincere condolences to you John, your children and grandchildren as you go through this most sad and difficult time…Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.

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      Gary Cooper says

      My deepest sympathies to the Stoodley/McDonald families!

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      Gerry & Lorna Boyce says

      We are very sorry for your loss, she was a wonderful woman!

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        Susan Duncan Crump says

        Our sincere condolences John, Tim, Melissa and Jonathan on the passing of your wonderful and kind wife and mother. Our sympathy to all of the extended McDonald and Stoodley families. Debbie was a remarkable woman.

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        Jeff and Eleanor Robinson says

        Our deepest sympathies to John, Tim, Melissa and Jonathan, and your family and the McDonald family. May the great memories that you share of Debbie bring you comfort during this very difficult time.

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          Paul Menard says

          Our prayers are with you during this difficult time. Our deepest sympathy.
          Paul and Sylvie Menard

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        Paul Menard says

        Our prayers are with you during this difficult time. Our deepest sympathy.
        Paul and Sylvie Menard

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      Thom & Wilma Mueller says

      Our sincere condolences go out to John and the family as well as the McDonald and Stoodley families! May you share great memories at this very difficult time!

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    Kathryn Caldwell says

    Amy
    I was deeply saddened to hear of your dear aunt’s passing. Please know that you and your family are all in my thoughts and prayers. Cyber hugs my friend.

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    Dwayne&Heather Pemberton says

    Our condolences to the family. Debbie was such a kind and wonderful woman. Our prayers are with you all.

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    Grant Boyce says

    Hi Folks. Its been quite some time. Im very sorry to hear about the passing of Deborah. I hope everyone is staying strong.

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    Cheryl Reoch says

    Dear John, Tim, Melissa, Jonathan, the Stoodley and McDonald families; Muriel Reoch and her family would like to express our sincere condolences to you all. May our Lord give you all the Peace and Strength during these very difficult days. Debbie is in Heaven now watching over you all. Share your memories and rejoice her life, and hold each other just a bit tighter. Rest in Peace our friend.

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      Jane williston says

      Stoodley and McDonald families So sorry that Debbie had to go so soon. May your memories of her comfort each of you. Her service was lovely. She fit such a lot into her life and I truly wish we had more good people like her in our world. Sincerley Dale and Jane (Acres) Williston

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    Suzanne Hendricks says

    Deepest sympathies to all the family… I had the amazing opportunity to work with Debbie and get to know her…. she was an amazing human! She will be missed!❤

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    Joanne van Moorsel says

    Prayers to the Stoodley and McDonald family.

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      George & Arlene Bryan says

      Deepest sympathy to the Stoodley and McDonald families. So sorry for your loss

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    Gerry Rosenquist says

    To Deborah’s family and friends: Please accept my sincerest condolences on the passing of Deborah. I knew her as an excellent nurse with a friendly demeanor who was kind, thoughtful and generous with her time and talent. May she rest in peace. Gerry Rosenquist

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    Mikyla says

    I am so sorry for your loss.
    Debbie’s passing will be felt by the entire community (and beyond!).
    I had the pleasure of working with Debbie over the last 6 years and will cherish these memories dearly.
    She was such a calming presence, an amazing sounding board, and the voice of reason on night shifts. You always felt better just knowing Debbie was in the building.
    I’d like to say a great big “Thank you” to Debbie’s family for allowing her WDMH family (MANY) opportunities to check in and say hello.
    All my love: Mikyla Lennard

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    Dale and Lois Keyes says

    John, Lois, Helen, Doris, Darlene and the entire Stoodley Family and the entire McDonald Family, please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of your dear family member. I did not know Debbie but have heard her name mentioned many times and certainly pass our thoughts and prayers along to both families. Sincerely, Lois and Dale Keyes

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    Gwen Coleman says

    My heartfelt sympathy to the Stoodley Family!
    I worked in the Emergency Dept with Debbie for many years! She was a wonderful person & nurse!
    Rest in peace my friend!

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    Marjorie Van Der Veen says

    My condolences to John and his family and to the MacDonald families. I grew up and went to school with Debbie. Debbie was a very special person who showed love and kindness wherever she went. I will cherish many fond memories of her. My heartfelt sympathies to you all at this time.

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    Sharon says

    My deepest sympathies to all of Debbie’s family. Your loss is shared by so many. She was a wonderful woman, nurse and coworker. Rest in peace my dear friend.

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      Willa Potter says

      Although it has been many years John,I want to express my most heartfelt sympathy to you and your family at this very sad time.

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    Doug Blaine says

    Sincere condolences to the Stoodley and MacDonald families. Debbie was a kind and caring nurse.

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    Janet Levere says

    My condolences. May your memories help you through this sad time.

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    Diane Spurr says

    John and family, condolences from the Spurr family. You are in our thoughts.

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    Cheryl A. Cooper says

    When Grandma McEwen was admitted to WDMH two years ago with terminal pancreatic cancer it was Debbie who was the friendly face and the professional who worked to ensure Grandma’s care was close to home. Our community and your family has lost a bright light. Sending sincere sympathies to the extended Stoodley/McDonald families.
    -The Cooper-McEwen family (Cheryl, Hugh, Kate and Stuart)

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    Wendy McDiarmid says

    My heartfelt sympathy to the Stoodley and McDonald families. Such a kind and generous person as well as an excellent nurse. She was always smiling.

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    Kim Gravelle says

    My condolences. Sweet Debbie with such a beautiful soul, we will never forget you.

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    Lorna Driscoll says

    My condolences to all the family. Debbie was such a wonderful person. Gone way too soon.

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    Lorne & Debbie Lacharity says

    Our condolences to John, Tim, Melissa, Jonathan and families and to the Stoodley and McDonald Families.
    It is with great sadness to hear about Debbie’s passing.
    Thoughts and prayers are with you all.

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    Cathy Harrison says

    Lillian Stewart and family would like to extend our deepest sympathy to all members of the Stoodley/McDonald families. Our thoughts are with you all during this time of sorrow along with our wishes that the memories of Debbie will bring you peace, strength and comfort. She was a kind and gentle soul.

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    Tony Francis says

    Sorry for your loss, Condolences to John and Family

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    John and Noemi Oude Egberink says

    Our heartfelt condolences to John and the families, from John and Noemi Oude Egberink and family.

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    Jackie Kelly-Pemberton says

    Caring thoughts are with you John & Family as you morn the loss of a wonderful, caring wife, mother, sister & friend taken far to soon. May every sweet & precious memory that you hold dear carry you through this time of sorrow. Jackie Kelly-Pemberton OFA director Zone 11

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    Randy & Cheryl Holmes says

    Our sincere condolences to all during this difficult time. Rest In Peace Debbie.

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    Bob and Sandra Weagant says

    Dear John and family. We were so sorry to hear of Debbie’s passing. She always had such a friendly hello and beautiful smile. Our prayers are with you at this sad time.

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    Mark & Lynn Alexander says

    Our condolences to John and family and to the McDonald family on Debbie’s passing.

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    Carl and Muriel Smith says

    Our deepest sympathy John to you and your family,also to the McDonald families Our prayers are with you all

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    Dwayne & Wilma Fawcett says

    John and Family and the McDonald Family
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very sad time. Deb was a beautiful person in every way. She will be missed.

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    Beverly Baker says

    Dear John & all extended families, especially her children & grandchildren – for whom she loved dearly & lived for. My heart felt sympathy for your loss. I enjoyed working with Deb – a non-judgemental, honest, compassionate, caring entity; who like I worked very hard/shift while others sat on their gluteus maximus -es – a laugh we shared last week when I spoke with her; & when I expressed how unfair life was, & how we could think of some more deserving to be in her place !! She agreed & told me she’d gladly give it away. The truly hurtful aspect of being a R.N. – she knew what was facing her, moreso than a commoner! Deb will bless the heavens with her very presence & no doubt will watch over all of you . May God Bless all of you & may her wonderful memories give you some condolence at such a hard time – her sweet smile & laugh will help you thru …….R.I.P. my friend Love Bev

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    Cindy Ault Peters says

    Our deepest condolences on your loss. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

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    Sue Burns and Bruce Davidson says

    Our sincere condolences to Debbie’s family and friends. May all of you get through this very sad time by caring for each other as Debbie would have wanted. Our thoughts are with you. Much love💕

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    LUCINDA CROSKERY says

    My thoughts and prayers are with you all. It is a tough road but things will get better in time. Take Care Cindy Croskery

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    Tom and Marlene Black says

    Tom and I were so sorry to hear of your wife’s passing, John. We are thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.

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    Bob and Marilyn Acres says

    Our condolences to all of the McDonald and Stoodley families. To John, Tim, Melissa, Jonathan and families our deepest sympathy. We were so saddened to learn of Debbie’s passing. She will be missed as a friend and a neighbor. Her face was always such a welcome sight when anyone was at the hospital seeking medical attention. We knew we would be looked after. Her passing has left a big hole in many hearts!

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      Allan Stanley says

      Condolences to both the Stoodley and McDonald families. Thinking of you at this difficult time.

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    Joan Levere Larocque says

    I had the pleasure of getting to know Debbie when we both worked at WDMH. She was always such a cheerful, caring nurse and person. Hang on to your memories. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

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    Bill and Norma McNaughton says

    Deepest sympathies to you John and all your family and the McDonald family with the loss of your dear Debbie! Such a loss for everyone who knew her. May your memories of Debbie give you strength at this sad time.

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    Greta Fetterly says

    Our Deepest Sympathy to John & Family. You are in our thoughts & prayers.
    Brian & Greta Fetterly

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    Peggy Malcolm & Ian McKelvie says

    So sorry to hear of Debbie’s passing. Whenever our paths crossed, starting at Inkerman School, Debbie was always so welcoming. What a loss. What lovely memories to cherish.

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    Gary and Linda Klein-Swormink and family says

    Our sincere condolences to John and all the Stoodley and McDonald families. Our thoughts are with you!

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    Lynn and Todd Kirkwood says

    John and Families
    So very sorry for your loss. Debbie was kind, caring and a wonderful person we had the pleasure to know.
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time.

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    Diane and Garry Barkley says

    Our sincere condolences to John and the Stoodley and Macdonald families . Debbie will be sorely missed by all her family and friends. May the many memories be a comfort to you at this sad time and in the days ahead .

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    Sharron Duncan-Laplante says

    Our deepest condolences to the Stoodley and McDonald families

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    Diane & Garry Munro says

    Sending our very deepest condolences to John and family as well as to the Stoodley and McDonald families. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all and may her memories always be with you!

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    Ken and Elizabeth Murdock says

    To John and Family, and to the McDonald Family.

    Our deepest condolences on the passing of your lovely Debbie.

    Sincerely,

    Elizabeth and Ken Murdock

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    Winston & Donna Page says

    Our deepest sympathy John, Tim, Melissa, Jonathan and to all the McDonald and Stoodley families. Wishing you strength and peace during this difficult times. May happy memories carry you through this sorrowful times.

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    Double Beauty says

    So sorry to hear about Debbie, she was a wonderful person.
    Condolences to the entire family.

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    Nancy Sheldrick says

    Dear John, Tim, Melissa, Johnathan and McDonald families:
    We are so very saddened to learn of Debbie’s passing and the overwhelming grief it has brought to all who love her. I have many lovely memories of this beautiful person as a colleague, friend and loving human being. May your good memories sustain you in the difficult months and years ahead.
    Heartfelt sympathy,
    Ralph and Nancy Sheldrick

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    Henry & Carol Doornwaard says

    Our sincere condolences for your loss. Debbie was truly a kind woman and her passing
    saddens us all.

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    Mary Klein Swormink says

    Sincere condolences to you John, your children and grandchildren from Mary Klein Swormink and family.

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    Mary Ellen Cyr says

    Deepest sympathies John, Tim, Melissa, Jonathan and your families. Such a loss…Debbie was a wonderful person. You are in our thoughts.
    Jeff and Mary Ellen

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    Doug Hicks says

    Our heartfelt sympathy to the entire Stoodley/McDonald families. Such a beautiful person in every way. Certainly to be miss by all.

    Sincerely, Doug & Judy Hicks

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    Meghan Beaulne says

    My deepest condolences to Debbie’s family. She was such a wonderful woman- always so kind, caring and a great friend to my Mom. You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

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    John & Nancy Edgerton says

    Our deepest condolences on your loss to all of the Stoodley/McDonald families. Thinking of you at this difficult time.

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    Leona Cameron says

    My sincere condolences to you John and your entire family as well as the whole McDonald family. Such a big loss for everyone. Debbie was a wonderful person and a terrific nurse. She brought comfort to so many. I loved when you called her “the bride “. She will be so missed. My heart breaks for all of you. Leona

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    Keith Sharon McDonald says

    Our deepest sympathy to John and family.Debbie was such a loving,kind,caring person who will be missed by so many.

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    Debbie Courneyea says

    I am so sorry for your loss, I remember Debbie at the hospital and on more than one occasion she cared for my mother. She was truly a blessing to the community and to her family. May you rest in peace Debbie.

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    Winston MacDonald says

    Sincere condolences John to you and your family and also to Glenn for the loss of his sister. Debbie dedicated much of her life to restoring health in others and yet she herself left this world at such an early age.
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
    Winston & Trudy

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    Nancy STOODLEY says

    So sorry for your loss. She’s a wonderful person. I will always remember her big beautiful smile.
    So kind and so caring. Will keep you all in my prayers.

    Nancy Stoodley and family

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    Frank and Judi Witt says

    Our deepest sympathy John to you and all your family
    May the many good memories you shared bring you some comfort at this very sad time
    Thinking of you

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    Jose and Doug Poole says

    Our sincere sympathy to all the Stoodley and McDonald families. May all your beautiful memories of Debbie sustain you in your time of sorrow.

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    Karen Mackler says

    The tributes to Debbie, in these messages, photos, radio notice, and service speak to so many aspects of a full life. I knew her through the “Stoodley Sisterhood” and enjoyed the interactions with her during family gatherings over the years, and more recently Christmas fund raisers and an outdoor picnic. Although it can be difficult during this time to focus on the positive, I hope these types of moments will be the ones that will eventually be foremost in your thoughts.

    Both Dave and I extend our heartfelt wish for peace to Debbie’s immediate and extended family and friends.

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    Carol and Brian Munro says

    Our deepest sympathy John to you and your family, and to Rhonda and the MacDonalds as well. She was a wonderful co-worker, always so calm and willing to help in any way she could. I hope your memories will always give you peace in your hearts.

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    Janet Cavan says

    My deepest sympathy to all of Deborah’s family in your time of sorrow as you grieve her loss. Sending love and prayers.

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    Gordon and Liz Sorensen says

    Debbie was a force for good in her community and will be sorely missed. She was always very welcoming and kind to my family as neighbours and especially to my mother as she went through her own health challenges late in life, for which we are very grateful. We offer John and Debbie’s family our sincere condolences on their terrible loss.

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    Wayne and Huguette Burns says

    We offer our sincere condolences on Debbie’s passing. We knew her as a great nurse and as participant in our walking club in Vernon. Always kind and gracious.

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    Eric Campbell says

    Deepest sympathy to the Stoodley and McDonald families for their loss.

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    Mary Mesman and family says

    Sincere condolences to the Stoodley and MacDonald families. Keep all your cherished memories close to your heart.

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    Hugh & Joanne Metcalfe says

    Sending our sincerest condolences to the all the family.

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    Allan says

    John,
    At this particular time in my life I quite often check online to see who amongst us has “gone on to the other side”
    You and I were class mates at NDDHS in the very early 1970s. Though I did not know your wife,
    from ” one farm boy to another farm boy ” please accept my most sincere sympathy, and also best wishes
    Allan

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